If we can't help you, there is someone who can. 
Check out these other marriage ministries.

Covenant Keepers www.covenantkeepersinc.org   PO BOX 702371 Tulsa OK 74170-2371 (918) 743-0365 Weekly support groups across the U.S. and in several foreign countries for the spouse who wants the marriage to work when the other spouse does not.. Books and tapes. Newsletter. Annual conference.

Family Foundations PO Box 320 Littleton, CO  80160 (303) 797-1139   Restoring family values in today's society. Books, tapes, seminars, annual convention. From Curse to Blessing seminars held monthly across the nation and around the world.
Email: marsha@familyfi.org     Website: www.familyfi.org

NAME (National Association of Marriage Enhancement) Teaching materials for marriage healing and growth. Counseling centers opening across the U.S. . Annual conference. www.nameonline.net

Rejoice Ministries Encouragement and counseling for troubled marriages. Books. Newsletter. Website www.rejoiceministries.org

United Marriage Encounter Provides a marriage enrichment weekend that is centered around each couple growing in their faith and in their relationship with each other, one-on-one.  Check out which weekend that they will be near you. http://www.ume1975.org/